Hi jesus760,
Well, I hope Mike, (hondadude) is ok. I KNOW that he's gonna get back to you as soon as he can. He may just be super busy at his shop. As he has already stated, that vent is the place to start checking. Have you got the service manual for that motor? It sounds as if you are pretty much mechanically oriented as you say you are willing to "go deep" and pull the power head.
Like I said, I'm not familiar with the 9.9, except for the newer models, so excuse me if I ask a couple of questions that don't apply to your engine.
Does yours have a replaceable oil filter?
Have you taken the hose that attaches to the oil fill body and goes up into the intake manifold off and made sure it is clear and not cracked or broken in some way? If that hose is plugged up, it will allow your crankcase pressure to rise and could push oil out the lower crank seal.
There may be a breather valve at the front of the engine that will have another hose going to the oil fill body. If yours has that, make sure that is not plugged with a wasp nest or something.
I hate to say it, but it sure SOUNDS like you have oil running down the main shaft since it's leaking way down low and that could be from the crank seal. So, that would either be because the seal failed or the breather is plugged and pressure is pushing the oil out past the seal which could mean the seal is toast anyway. But, I would try to eliminate any possibility of it being a leak up inside the oil case before pulling the power head. And, I would urge you to buy the shop manual if you intend to do that. At any rate, you do need to verify that the crankcase vent system is clear before replacing any seals because a plugged vent will just blow out the new one.
We feel you pain.