More info please!
Year/model, etc. I/O or I/B?
(most likely an I/B.... but for a few years, Chrysler did use the Volvo Penta drive with the Chrysler name on it)
Your one friend who suggests impeller, may be correct......
And your other friend who suggests exhaust may also be correct.......
This leaves you with a choice of checking one or the other, or both!
Quite frankly, I'd be checking ALL areas, since cooling is so dang important.
It's not uncommon that rust scale within the Exhaust Manifold and/or within the transfer ports, will restrict outgoing "spent" sea water flow...... of which will result in limited incoming cooling water.
As with most any sea water pump and cooling systems, we need to learn and follow the sea water path.
Once the path is understood, then trouble shooting becomes easier and more effective.
Engine mounted sea water pumps require that there be ZERO suction leaks on the suction side.
One tiny breach here......., and we may loose dang near all cooling water at certain RPM.... or limited thurought the RPM range!
Any pressure leaks should be easily seen.
Also, odd as this may sound, look for crustaceans that may be in the suction side! I've removed handfuls of these before.
Check the interior of your sea water pump!
Check the two thrust areas of the interior of your sea water pump!
Check the impeller cam!
Again, follow the path, and use the P of E (process of elimination)!
You will find it!
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