There are a lot of videos on youtube. But quick run down.
Put outboard in FWD.Undo the five nuts,5/8",I think. One visible at the front,one either side of the lower unit,one either side under the cavitation plate,and then the sneaky bolt,7/16" under the trim tab.The lower unit should slide out.
Remove the rubber ring and the the three small nuts,3/8" and screw on the pump cover,it should come off with a wee bit of light persuasion if necessary. The impeller should slide off and watch for the key that holds the impeller in place.
If you need to change the base,which I would leave alone unless absolutely necessary,pry it out gently,note the way the gaskets come out and replace in the same way,replace the o-ring,lube it with wash up liquid fit new one,put new impeller on making sure the key is in place,flat bit on drive shaft.Lube inside of pump cover with soap liquid,push cover down over the impeller with a clockwise direction to turn the vanes the right way.
Don't tighten the nuts too much. There should be a small plastic tube in the kit or if it wasn't there when you removed the lower unit,check up the water tube.It's to guide the water tube into the pump.Replace the rubber ring.
Make sure lower unit is in fwd,prop locks one way and ratchets the other,push lower unit on,you may need help here,someone to turn the flywheel clockwise until drive mates up.
Good luck