Heres where it gets hairy. Did you get the piece that goes down into the reverse cam? In order to get to that part of the motor you may need to pull the powerhead in order to pull the swivel tube out then remove the four engine mounts on the saddle that holds the driveshaft housing to the saddle. All just to get the rod into the reverse cam on the bottom. What causes the roid to break is the reverse clamp parts are froze up under the clamp bracket and the cam can also be damaged. Just shift through the gears as someone is spinning the prop you may be able to snap the rod into place without taking it apart fingers crossed.