Ok, I think I have my answer. I went back to the shop I got it from and asked. If anyone could double confirm, It'd be appreciated!
The alternator grounds thru the mounting bracket as long as it is grounded.
Diagree!
There is a Chasis Negative terminal, and your OEM wiring will include this circuit. The OEM wants it there for good reason.
B+ is the main battery connection so wire from battery to postRed wire doubles back and connects to B+ post
Incorrect..... although schematically it would work.
As said, the "charge" lead will connect to the "Common" cable connection at the starter motor solenoid terminal.
IOW, your main Battery Cable that leaves the MBSS and heads to the engine.
Purple wire connects to + side of coil
P is Tachometer post.
Unlikely that your helm tachometer uses an alternator pulse. I'd need to look at the OEM wiring schematic.
Most that I see are ignition pulse.
The rest we don't need to use.
He said some people run the main cable to starter and then connect the starter to alternator with a cable to direct the main power but it dosent matter which way.
I do need to find the tachometer wire on the motor though.
Rick, Our motor is a bit of a hodpodge. original was a 5.8 EFI Volvo Penta with 290 DP out drive. But its not a direct stern drive. Motor is inboard with a driveshaft to the out drive. Shortish version is the org motor core got trashed (before we bought it) so we are replacing with a 5.8L 351 Windsor which is basically the same thing except oil dipstick is on other side. Going from fuel injected to carborated too. We are bolting up all the useable parts and replacing the bad. It has not been as cut and dry as it seems like it should have been.

Boat harness and motor harness have same plug but the wires are all colored different and in different orders and numbers. Nothing has been true plug and play material. I have been having a very hard time finding any real info about the electrical systems so we have resorted to chasing wires and testing and trial and error.