Turn the motor upside down. Using a mini flashlight, see if the shifter coupler coming from the power head is centered. If not, push it centered and jam some paper in there to keep it that way. With the shifters both in forward, slip it together. The first thing to fight you is the driveshaft entering the crank snout. Turn the prop to get it together. That last 1/2 inch is the shifter engaging. DON'T force it together since the shifter goes only one way (and if it jams, you'll pull the shifter shaft out of the lower unit getting it apart). And don't forget that water tube or you'll have to do it all over again.
Jeff
PS: If there's an O-ring on the top of the driveshaft, throw it out and lube the splines with grease. That O-ring fights you getting the thing together.