Thanks Jeff. I ended up getting it back in. I think the issue was I didn't have the lower unit in reverse or maybe I just finally wiggled it the right way...
Is Loctite necessary when putting those bolts back in? I wish I had known it was there when I started - I broke one of the bolts off in the exhaust housing. I only use this in freshwater. Can I get away with marine grease?
Also, how much of a "tell tale" stream should I see? it basically just drips out, one drip every couple seconds. The motor doesn't seem to be overheating - on a warm day on the water the cover gets hot but not too hot to hold my hand on it and the drip from the tell tale tube feels cold
Thank you!