The leak makes some sense now.
I would start by removing the port side cover. That should expose most of the fuel lines and the vapor separator. The line from the vapor separator to the fuel rail should be the bottom one. If you see no leaks at the vst or the high pressure line, check all along the fuel rail....which you have probably already checked. This will give you best visual access to the fuel lines.
Hopefully, they did not connect it properly (and the leak is apparent) and you are losing fuel pressure. Thus the hard starting and poor running.
Check the injectors closely in case one is cracked.
If no visible leaks....
If your husband has a compression gauge, he may want to check the compression in the cylinders. There could be a crack in the head.
What housing is cracked? Any pictures available?
Are any of the ignition coils cracked or broken? I know that is the other side, but engines do bounce when they are dropped. I know they do not leak fuel, but are critical for runability.
Cycling the key on and off will run the high pressure fuel pump for 2 seconds each time. Have someone do that while the other is looking for leaks. It the leak is external, it will show up pretty quick.
The fuel may be easier to see if you do this in a shaded area and use a flashlight. The light from the flashlight will reflect better when it hits the fuel.
Hope this helps. Unfortunately, as good as the Helm manual is, it will not tell you what to look for if something is physically broken. Also, I hope the fuel is not coming out of the actual idle port tube. It goes up before it goes out the back of the motor. That would mean that it is full of fuel.
Mike