I had to replace a coupling on my boat. I called the prop shop and they had the one I needed in stock. I went over to pick it up and they were surprised I didn't bring my shaft so they could fit the coupling to it. I had no idea... I bought the coupling and left, and then tried to install it on the shaft, but there was no way that was going to happen. In the end, I took the shaft and the new coupling back to the prop shop and they machined it to a very tight tolerance - maybe even .001" under, and they dimpled the shaft to accept the set screws (bolts). I did end up using the BFH method with a block of wood between the gear coupling and the new shaft coupling, and I held another block at the aft end of the shaft as I drove the shaft into the coupling. I didn't coat the shaft or coupling's ID with anything.
Since then I've heard of people heating the coupling in a pot of cooking oil to give a little more clearance and then quickly positioning it with oven mitts before too much heat is lost. The shaft is then driven in.
And I almost forgot to mention that using a solid coupling, instead of split coupling, will cause people to look at you like you're caveman. I didn't know that until I replaced the coupling.
Hope that helps. Good luck.
Dan