A few clarifications, and in no certain order:
Minimum oil pressure at idle speed would be 10-15 psi.
Max oil pressure should not exceed 60*. Cavitation (at/near the oil pump) may occur if pressure exceeds that.
Chamfering of the oil passages can be done to help reduce the likelihood of cavitation.
(Bill Jenkins did extensive research on this in the late 60s)
Marine engine operating temperature will vary depending on the cooling system (i.e., Raw Water cooled -vs- a Closed Cooling System) and the water that we are operating in.
Examples:
RWC SBC in ocean water should run no warmer than 145* to avoid salt crystallization.
RWC SBC in lake/river water can run at 160* with no issues.
Closed Cooling system SBC
operating in any water can safely run at 160*/180*.
Oil viscosity is measured at a given oil temperature. This is oil temperature, not necessarily coolant temperature!
You will find an array of suggested operating oil temperatures.
On average, 185*-210* is acceptable. Let this and engine operating temperature be a factor when you choose a viscosity.
The 25-40 viscosity sounds about right to me.
The SBC oil pump is a semi-positive displacement pump, and is capable of producing up to 200+ psi.
The spring loaded relief valve controls the pressure that the oiling system sees.
The oil pump will produce more volume than what a healthy SBC engine will require.
While we may read that the general rule is 10 psi per 1K RPM, the relief valve should prevent excessive oil pressure.
I'm not aware of synthetic or synthetic blends "knocking stuff off" that would not be captured by the oil filter as the oil returns to the oiling system.
I agree with Tim in that you will want to pull/drain the oil while it is hot or at least very warm.
Your best scenario will be a remote oil drain hose that is connected to the oil pan's drain plug port. Not a Whimpey hose, but a larger inside diameter hose.
There are a few great suction devices out there that do a great job.
I use the Tempo Oil Boy oil extractor.
Fully mechanical.... no electric pump and no power to connect up.
Connect to remote drain hose..... pump the handle...... sit back and watch the oil being extracted.