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Posted on iBoats forum back on 9-27-2013.
This was posted after someone had read one of my comments from another boating forum:
"Just adding my experience with the same issue. In 2011 I purchased a used 2004 Crownline 235CCR 5.0 L bravo 3 drive with 195 hrs. Previous owner had mentioned some minor issue with shifting and believed it to be cable related. Sure enough, the longer I used the boat the worse the delay got. Long story short, I went through pretty much all the mentioned suggestions, oil, cables, linkage, engine RPM, etc. All items checked out to be OK. It got to the point where all the mechanics I consulted said I require a new gear set. Well if it's that bad, I have nothing to loose. I removed the leg, disassembled the upper drive and discovered a very clear difference in the finishes on the gears (I think that we can safely assume that he meant "gear cups") between forward and reverse. Forward had an almost chrome finish when compared to the reverse gear. I purchased a $7.00 lapping compound kit from local automotive stores and very lightly lapped the forward gear with the clutch to remove the polished finish. I cleaned and reassembled the drive with new oil and I'm happy to report 40 hrs of trouble free boating this 2013 season. I'm not saying this is your issue, but in my search for help I did not find anything on lapping the clutch/gear set. (and you won't because Merc and/or Volvo Penta want to sell you a new complete gear set!)
PS
I did have a marine mechanic have a look at the drive after I had put some hours on it after my repair just for peace of mind and answer a couple questions I had on the brass shifting rings wear patterns, etc. All is good. Maybe this can help someone else."
You've got nothing to loose but some of your time, new gaskets/O-rings, gear oil and a tube of lapping compound.
If you find debris in the oiling grooves and clear it........., you may not even need to lap them!
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