I have a 42AH gel battery as my "house" battery and a regular marine AGM for my start. I use an off the shelf VSR for my dual battery circuit and it works fine on my 1999 BF50 which has a standard 10 amp charge coil. My regulator puts out 14.7 volts. On my Gel battery it says that up to 15 volts constant voltage may be used for cycle charging.
If if you check your voltage output on the battery when you have a full charge and running at over 3000rpm you should see what your regulator is putting out, it should be about the same as mine. You should also check the specification sheet for your Gel battery to be sure that it's ok to be cycle charged at that voltage. I'm pretty sure you will be fine, although these are pretty basic tests and checks to be sure.
im not intimately familiar with your exact engine but I'd reckon it's not that different at the level we are discussing. One word of caution however, Do Not disconnect your battery from the regulator while the engine is running or you risk killing your regulator and in turn possibly your charge coils. I have personally seen this with a lose earth wire from the regulator to the block.