"The 4 should have a neutral f
"The 4 should have a neutral forward, but no need to disconnect the rod.
What probably has happened is that the drive shaft is corroded stuck in the crank. The drive pin for the impeller moves about 1/8" before it hits the cup in the pump housing.
The only way is to force down the gear housing, the pump housing will be damaged as the drive shaft/impeller pin goes through the cup.
Then take off the power head with the drive shaft, put drive shaft in a vice with powerhead down, spray with WD 40 and leave for some days, carefully knock the powerhead off the driveshaft.If You are lucky, there will still be splines left in the crank shaft!!"